Source: Author: Chantal Beaupre, n.a.
"Attitude is everything, then I have advantage to choose one that is beneficial for me."
This makes perfect sense. Yet we are often given to meet people for whom the attitude do not have enough value in their eyes that they care for them - at least a little bit. In fact, many people who simply leave their attitude at random events, people and things - and experiencing all sorts of emotions more or less unpleasant, painful and often unnecessary.
What about you? Are you aware of your attitudes, thoughts that you maintain in your own mind?
As you awaken in the morning, what are the first two or three things you do or say?
Curse you that you must go to work? You complain about the weather outside? You grumble about your back pain or a headache? You yell after children so they get up and get ready?
You know, most of us think or say more or less the same thing every morning!
And if the first things you do or say in the morning should reflect the overall look of your day, what thoughts or words would you choose? Is your dialogue positive and cheerful? Or is it whiny and full of censure?
It is clear that if you're used too grumbling in the morning, complaining and moaning, very likely that you'll be putting up your day at same speed, unless you change your attitude during the day.
At the risk of surprising you, the last things you think or say the evening is also very important in regard to your happiness!
What are your last thoughts before falling asleep?
Are you worried about tomorrow?
Do you have positive, rich and beneficial thoughts for you or do you rather harboring negative, poor and disastrous thoughts?
Be well aware the mean of wealth or poverty, do not necessarily refer to money. It simply refers to a harmful way of thinking about any aspect of your life - or any area of your life not running freely.
It is probably wise to maintain the habit of reading or listening to a positive, healthy and beneficial message before going to bed. You should never watch the news before falling asleep. Be aware that throughout your sleep, your subconscious will continue to marinate the last thoughts that you have offered, then pay special attention not to give him only thoughts that are beneficial to you.
Similarly, it is particularly useful to deliver into the hands of your subconscious any questions or problems you may have, you'll be wonderfully surprised at the answers and solutions available to you during the next waking hours!
I greatly encourage you to give importance to choosing your attitude, either by first taking the healthy habit of observing your own thoughts - no matter what time of day. In other words, this is to think about what you do while you think.
If you find that you already have positive, healthy and beneficial thoughts, that is very good! Be thankful and continue on the same path!
However, should you find that your thoughts are negative, destructive and harmful to you, do not spend your precious energy to fight against them, but rather head for your attention on more positive thoughts for you.
Remember that you are responsible for your attitude, thoughts that you choose to keep in your mind. Have the wisdom to choose thoughts that are positive, healthy and beneficial for you.
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Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Having a positive attitude
The following steps are a summary of what many see as a motivational recipe for achieving its objectives and realize their dreams. I am convinced that these steps are really useful and essential, but a good dose of sweat and determination must accompany these lessons.
As you select what you want, these steps are very useful and will give you results that can improve your life.
1) MAKE YOUR LIFE BY DREAMING AND IMAGINE IT
To get something, you must first have dreamed and desired it.
This is what all the great inventors creative genius have done. It should nevertheless be more difficult to create his life than to create an airplane, a submarine, a rocket or a parachute. And you know that Leonardo da Vinci and Jules Verne, to name only the best known, both have started to dream and imagine inventions that would emerge long after their death.
2) MAKE YOUR LIFE IN WRITING
Dream your life is not enough. The next step is to write in detail everything you want. As you will note the list of your commissions for the supermarket, it is a command that you pass to the universe, that is to say to yourself and your subconscious somehow. And the more your "letter" will be clear and precise (dates, descriptions, etc..) more easily you get what you want. This step is essential as you will do it by writing you will do well at THIS to say to see the results materialize.
3) MAKE YOUR LIFE IN THINKING TO DESIRE RESULT
Once you've written what you require, as if you've already got, you will think about it often. And the best way is to read and reread this "letter" you sent in your universe (your subconscious). Note that only repetition can assure you of the result, as if your thoughts repeated over days, weeks and months turned into the path way and the road and finally highway leading to the goal.
4) MAKE YOUR LIFE VIEWING THE DESIRED OUTCOME
The thought does not suffice, you have to involve visualization to strengthen everything you've done before. Each time you reread what you want, visualize yourself obtaining the result. To see yourself rich, is to see you smile and having the home of your dreams, perhaps realizing another dream, probably helping your family. Itemize your display in the result and not the means to achieve it.
5) MAKE YOUR LIFE FEEL THE RESULT
Imagine, think, view, all that is necessary, but not sufficient. If you REALLY want to get the life you want and thus create your life, I invite you to FEEL IT, that is to say, just to get the feelings, emotions that will be yours once the outcome happen. Feel the joy you will overrun, a sense of security or love will invade you. Feel your pride of having already succeeded. FEEL your body in your recovery and / or your happiness. Be prepared to leap with joy and gratitude!
6) ACT AS IF YOU'VE GOT WHAT YOU WANT
When you've imagined, conceived, visualized and feel, you must still act as if you had already got what you want. (No signing checks or stopping to take your medical treatment of course!)
Act as if you had already achieved the desired result is to behave as if, therefore, with the same joy, the same serenity, the same kindness, etc. All the acts that you ask. This means that you will now SMILE to others and stop complaining, of course, walk with confidence towards success.
7) MAKE YOUR LIFE POSITIVE, ENTHUSIASTIC AND ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN OF THE RESULT
This naturally leads you to be positive and enthusiastic. You will feel very confident that everything you wish for you (do not mix with others that create your life) will come true and is already under protest, even if you do not see it yet. Like the peasant rejoices in winter wheat that will inevitably emerge, grow and give abundant as the grain sown in the fall!
This enthusiasm and positivity, this assurance that everything is being set up in your best interests give you serenity and joy are immediate and excellent success factors of your life!
As you select what you want, these steps are very useful and will give you results that can improve your life.
1) MAKE YOUR LIFE BY DREAMING AND IMAGINE IT
To get something, you must first have dreamed and desired it.
This is what all the great inventors creative genius have done. It should nevertheless be more difficult to create his life than to create an airplane, a submarine, a rocket or a parachute. And you know that Leonardo da Vinci and Jules Verne, to name only the best known, both have started to dream and imagine inventions that would emerge long after their death.
2) MAKE YOUR LIFE IN WRITING
Dream your life is not enough. The next step is to write in detail everything you want. As you will note the list of your commissions for the supermarket, it is a command that you pass to the universe, that is to say to yourself and your subconscious somehow. And the more your "letter" will be clear and precise (dates, descriptions, etc..) more easily you get what you want. This step is essential as you will do it by writing you will do well at THIS to say to see the results materialize.
3) MAKE YOUR LIFE IN THINKING TO DESIRE RESULT
Once you've written what you require, as if you've already got, you will think about it often. And the best way is to read and reread this "letter" you sent in your universe (your subconscious). Note that only repetition can assure you of the result, as if your thoughts repeated over days, weeks and months turned into the path way and the road and finally highway leading to the goal.
4) MAKE YOUR LIFE VIEWING THE DESIRED OUTCOME
The thought does not suffice, you have to involve visualization to strengthen everything you've done before. Each time you reread what you want, visualize yourself obtaining the result. To see yourself rich, is to see you smile and having the home of your dreams, perhaps realizing another dream, probably helping your family. Itemize your display in the result and not the means to achieve it.
5) MAKE YOUR LIFE FEEL THE RESULT
Imagine, think, view, all that is necessary, but not sufficient. If you REALLY want to get the life you want and thus create your life, I invite you to FEEL IT, that is to say, just to get the feelings, emotions that will be yours once the outcome happen. Feel the joy you will overrun, a sense of security or love will invade you. Feel your pride of having already succeeded. FEEL your body in your recovery and / or your happiness. Be prepared to leap with joy and gratitude!
6) ACT AS IF YOU'VE GOT WHAT YOU WANT
When you've imagined, conceived, visualized and feel, you must still act as if you had already got what you want. (No signing checks or stopping to take your medical treatment of course!)
Act as if you had already achieved the desired result is to behave as if, therefore, with the same joy, the same serenity, the same kindness, etc. All the acts that you ask. This means that you will now SMILE to others and stop complaining, of course, walk with confidence towards success.
7) MAKE YOUR LIFE POSITIVE, ENTHUSIASTIC AND ABSOLUTELY CERTAIN OF THE RESULT
This naturally leads you to be positive and enthusiastic. You will feel very confident that everything you wish for you (do not mix with others that create your life) will come true and is already under protest, even if you do not see it yet. Like the peasant rejoices in winter wheat that will inevitably emerge, grow and give abundant as the grain sown in the fall!
This enthusiasm and positivity, this assurance that everything is being set up in your best interests give you serenity and joy are immediate and excellent success factors of your life!
Friday, November 20, 2009
What is your passion ?
Wow, passion, what a powerful feeling. Whenever we encounter a passionate person, you feel a nice energy to invade the space around us and we feels drawn to these people. Nothing more natural, we all like to be surrounded by energetic, positive, which sees life as an adventure.
I do not mean the fanatics, the hyperactive who only talk but never act and do nothing concrete in their lives. I'm talking about people who are really active, which are really productive for the community and have a positive impact on their families.
What is your passion which excite you, that fills you with energy, which pushes you to go further and think outside your comfort zone?
When wedares to invest and actually get involved in what interests us it is not difficult to get up in the morning. We can not wait to wake up to enjoy the pleasure and welfare given by passion. When I mean passion you should understand that I do not want to talk about problem gamblers and people who have addictions to drugs and other habits that have destructive effects on individuals. I mean anything that amuses you, makes you creative, you can help others, contribute to society or to advance a social or environmental cause.
Life is really short to realize his dreams and enjoy millions of interesting things to do and see. It is therefore important not to waste his time complaining to wait after the other to get ahead in life and especially should not put his energy into negative activities and destructive behaviors.
Fans raise the world and the skeptics hang down. This little phrase simply means that the madness of passion allows the human race to evolve, while the others are doing everything they can to stop us from going further.
Are you a passionate person? If so, share your passion with others, if not, delve deep within your heart and dare to live your passions.
I do not mean the fanatics, the hyperactive who only talk but never act and do nothing concrete in their lives. I'm talking about people who are really active, which are really productive for the community and have a positive impact on their families.
What is your passion which excite you, that fills you with energy, which pushes you to go further and think outside your comfort zone?
When wedares to invest and actually get involved in what interests us it is not difficult to get up in the morning. We can not wait to wake up to enjoy the pleasure and welfare given by passion. When I mean passion you should understand that I do not want to talk about problem gamblers and people who have addictions to drugs and other habits that have destructive effects on individuals. I mean anything that amuses you, makes you creative, you can help others, contribute to society or to advance a social or environmental cause.
Life is really short to realize his dreams and enjoy millions of interesting things to do and see. It is therefore important not to waste his time complaining to wait after the other to get ahead in life and especially should not put his energy into negative activities and destructive behaviors.
Fans raise the world and the skeptics hang down. This little phrase simply means that the madness of passion allows the human race to evolve, while the others are doing everything they can to stop us from going further.
Are you a passionate person? If so, share your passion with others, if not, delve deep within your heart and dare to live your passions.
Friday, November 6, 2009
Doubt the future
If there is a subject that deserves to be analyzed carefully, it’s this sense of apprehension we have about what will happen in the future. We doubt and we fear what might happen in the future, because we have no certainty we can face this fate if misfortunes arose.
When our thoughts or our reflections linger over the future and when we are doubtful, we can easily assert we are on the first phase of paranoia, that is to say, we extrapolate on situations which exist only in our imagination. We don’t mean planning for the future with several hypotheses, but we have important doubt on our capacities to face the future.
These doubts are doubts on our personal capacities, on the capacity to react well into society in which we live and on the way the humanity meets the present challenges. Nothing can guarantee the future will be as you would like to see it. Nothing can protect you from misfortunes, injustices or anything else that can make your life more difficult.
Why do we have all these doubts? Simply because we have no control over the future in most areas of our lives. An answer which you didn’t doubtless want to hear because there is nothing to reassure you. Unfortunately, such is life. For some people it’s a real pleasure to live in an environment like this. They love discovering new things, they love adventure, they love being surprised by life and they try to face situations with energy and enthusiasm. While for others, I would say most people, the less surprised they have in their lives, the better.
When challenges are important, it’s not easy to adapt ourselves, to react calmly, with serenity and especially without any doubt that things will be for best when the thunderstorm will be over. It’s not always the case but often, that’s what happens. As we dread the end of the adventure is not always positive, we imagine tons of scenarios so apocalyptic. With so much apprehension and imagination, we have a better understanding why the majority of people prefer not to have too many surprises in their life.
How do you manage this emotion ?
When our thoughts or our reflections linger over the future and when we are doubtful, we can easily assert we are on the first phase of paranoia, that is to say, we extrapolate on situations which exist only in our imagination. We don’t mean planning for the future with several hypotheses, but we have important doubt on our capacities to face the future.
These doubts are doubts on our personal capacities, on the capacity to react well into society in which we live and on the way the humanity meets the present challenges. Nothing can guarantee the future will be as you would like to see it. Nothing can protect you from misfortunes, injustices or anything else that can make your life more difficult.
Why do we have all these doubts? Simply because we have no control over the future in most areas of our lives. An answer which you didn’t doubtless want to hear because there is nothing to reassure you. Unfortunately, such is life. For some people it’s a real pleasure to live in an environment like this. They love discovering new things, they love adventure, they love being surprised by life and they try to face situations with energy and enthusiasm. While for others, I would say most people, the less surprised they have in their lives, the better.
When challenges are important, it’s not easy to adapt ourselves, to react calmly, with serenity and especially without any doubt that things will be for best when the thunderstorm will be over. It’s not always the case but often, that’s what happens. As we dread the end of the adventure is not always positive, we imagine tons of scenarios so apocalyptic. With so much apprehension and imagination, we have a better understanding why the majority of people prefer not to have too many surprises in their life.
How do you manage this emotion ?
Thursday, November 5, 2009
How to stay motivated to achieve you dreams?
You want to live with a smile and have joy in life no matter what happens to you. Nothing is easier to think deeper than you've just won 40 million dollars in the lottery. Do the visualization exercise and try to really believe you've won! Force yourself to work your imagination so you can feel this feeling deep in your emotions, your body!
Not easy, is'nt it ? It is not easy because we are not able to believe it and as we can't believe it can't happens, we cannot create the sensation of freedom and safety resulting from winning such an amount in the lottery. Moreover, it is difficult to imagine that feeling because you have no personal memory of such a sensation, therefore, you cannot remember such a feeling.
If I ask you to reproduce a feeling such as fear of heights, fear of an automobile collision, fear being hit by someone else, there's a good chance you can get there. It is likely that you will get there, simply because you have a real memory of that emotion and from the memory, you are able to reproduce that emotion.
All these explanations to help to understand how to generate energy for your dreams, you must find in you the feeling within you when you reach the desired results. You have to find a personal experience the closest possible to the emotion that you think you will feel when you reach your goal.
When you associate an emotion with your dream, you started the motivation engine, the most powerful motivation toll in the world for you to move every day towards achieving your dream. You have just discovered the most important way to you recharge your batteries when you feel that things will not go as you want.
To stay motivated it is imperative that your motivation comes from a real sensation, an emotion that you are able to reproduce when require. To complete a project, to fulfill a dream, you must often face many unexpected situations that could have the effect of discouraging you. As most people have considerable difficulty in coping with adversity, it is essential to find motivation from a positive emotion and above all a true emotion.
The power of emotions is not anymore to prove, everyone knows how emotions are the source of most of the major achievements as the worst failures. Success is in the art of using these positive emotions to motivate, rejuvenate and pick the best of us.
Try it and tell me what happens to you.
Not easy, is'nt it ? It is not easy because we are not able to believe it and as we can't believe it can't happens, we cannot create the sensation of freedom and safety resulting from winning such an amount in the lottery. Moreover, it is difficult to imagine that feeling because you have no personal memory of such a sensation, therefore, you cannot remember such a feeling.
If I ask you to reproduce a feeling such as fear of heights, fear of an automobile collision, fear being hit by someone else, there's a good chance you can get there. It is likely that you will get there, simply because you have a real memory of that emotion and from the memory, you are able to reproduce that emotion.
All these explanations to help to understand how to generate energy for your dreams, you must find in you the feeling within you when you reach the desired results. You have to find a personal experience the closest possible to the emotion that you think you will feel when you reach your goal.
When you associate an emotion with your dream, you started the motivation engine, the most powerful motivation toll in the world for you to move every day towards achieving your dream. You have just discovered the most important way to you recharge your batteries when you feel that things will not go as you want.
To stay motivated it is imperative that your motivation comes from a real sensation, an emotion that you are able to reproduce when require. To complete a project, to fulfill a dream, you must often face many unexpected situations that could have the effect of discouraging you. As most people have considerable difficulty in coping with adversity, it is essential to find motivation from a positive emotion and above all a true emotion.
The power of emotions is not anymore to prove, everyone knows how emotions are the source of most of the major achievements as the worst failures. Success is in the art of using these positive emotions to motivate, rejuvenate and pick the best of us.
Try it and tell me what happens to you.
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